HOW NOT TO LEAD A WOMAN ON

IF you are not ready for a relationship... Don't lead her to believe you are by YOUR actions! This is not really gender specific because men do it to women and we do it to them too. OK now we got the p.c b.s outta the way... Why in the hell would you lead a woman to believe you are at the least very least interested in her by the way you treat her when yall together??? Guys guys now come with this foolishness i have officially had enough, i just got out of a crazy situation with a fine ass guy that i really really liked.. we met through a mutual friend of ours and we both were single and sexy.. why not?? uh huh... we started hanging out on the regular basis at least five nights out of the first month i was staying the night over (on his request, ok) and i thought he was a nice guy... until a month into it he decided he just didn't wanna talk to me anymore. no particular reason just one day, no actually three days went by and no phone call from him... lets go back now, we spending a hell of a lot of time together, talking about everything, shopping together, cooking and eating at the table! Together, kissing even taking baths together with drinks and all that, we even prayed together yall!! Twice!!! Come On.. WTF? I wasn't trying to lock this guy down but i had kinda starting feeling him, you know letting that guard down a bit and BAM slap in tha face. i was willing to be patient and wait a while to make a move towards him and i told him that. i even tried to let him go the minute i knew i was starting to look forward to his call, i straight up told this man this is not what i want from him just being friends and i think i should back off.. He said nooo don't do that don't give up on me.. Aww aint that some bullshit to say?! I fell for it and took a sigh of breath and relaxed just a little. I felt that this was his out if he wanted to stay single and play love games but he sounded so reassuring like maybe i was wrong and needed to be cool. we got to the point of him asking me to move in with him because we stayed kinda far away from each other, ah yeah i wanted to jump in my car and run to him but i knew i couldn't.. not this fast. i told him we were not ready for that but i was ready to proceed with a relationship if he was, when we got off the phone we were on target to new things and i was on cloud 9 but still grounded and it felt great! i had made a wise decision and i thought this will only benefit us in the end.. i guess it kinda still did. he sent me a text "Hey im sorry it happen tht way i knw we had fun. I really dnt knw wht im doin rite now. Im let u knw " What the hell is that?? That's ALL you got for me and the End?? Wow, who would have known??? Now the feelings of rejection are reeking havoc on me, and it sorta shook me but umma a big girl and shit happens.. But that doesn't make it right to lead people on and then just drop them after they have asked you upf ront not to take them on a ride??? I will never understand.